Growing Up and Growing Older
Dr. Sandra McGuire's "Growing Up and Growing Older: Books for Young Readers -- An Annotated Bibliography of Nonageist Literature for Preschool - Third Grade " -- updated, January 2009 (.pdf file)
Of related interest is the Center for Children's & Young Adult Literature (CCYAL) web site which has moved to http://www.sis.utk.edu/ccyal/.